Suffocation: Living More with Less by James Wallman
Reviewed by Dr. Panchajanya Paul, MD

Around seventy percent of US economy is dependent on consumer spending. The
more people buy stuff, more demand is created. This leads to more jobs, and
more tax collected by the government. This generates the numbers like gross
domestic products (GDP) and per capita income by which we measure economy
and performance. Thus most government policies directly or indirect
encourages more consumer spending. It is no surprise that we have more
shopping malls, than parks in Atlanta. Aristotle said that all human pursue
happiness although they differ in ways to achieve that, which later was
adopted by the founding fathers in the declaration of Independence. All this
prosperity leads us to buy and accumulate stuff over time. Is this excess
stuff making us happy? The author James Wallman tries to answer this and
several other questions in his book titled Suffocation. The author begins
with a poignant example from his childhood "Remember those days when you'd
wake up and the snow was so thick the roads were blocked, the train would
not run , and the weatherman stays at home ? You'd put some warm clothes and
get hold of a sled - ideally your gear would include ski gloves and one of
those wooden sleds Austrians use, you would have so much fun wearing wooly
gloves, and ride on a sled. Then you would go sledging for a stolen day of
magic. The next day paper would scream that the cost to the economy was
billions. The economy! You'd think. Who cares about the economy? We were
sledging."
Economist Richard Easterlin argued in his 1974 article "Does Economic Growth
Improve the Human Lot? Some Empirical Evidence" that happiness at a national
level does not increase with wealth once basic needs are fulfilled. Other
researchers also noted that materialistic people tended to be less happy.
The author writes "Even when material goods are helpful in signifying
status, they create more problems. Because in today's meritocratic society
having goods signifies success and equally not having goods signifies
failure. As a result, we are not only smugly or painfully aware of who is
above or below us in the pecking order. We also can know we can clamber up
or slip don the rankings at any moment. In this game of snakes and ladders,
the game never stops and everybody is a competitor...Mass produced goods,
which are the natural product of the system, are the worst of all. They are
so stripped of meaning and novelty that they have little chance of genuinely
exciting or inspiring us. The monotony of the mass production is fully
matched by the monotony of its product. So we quickly become bored with the
goods we have and, in search for novelty move on to the next thing, and
begin the process again." Psychologist Oliver James in his book Affluenza,
asserted that the more a society replicates the materialistic United States,
the higher the rate of emotional distress among its people.
But nobody wants to give up money. Money can save life, give power, and
provide security. . It can pay off for education, treatment, travel,
hobbies, retirement and disability. The next question becomes how to spend
it wisely? For many years, psychologists debated what is the best use of
money to generate happiness - is it buying expensive stuff or indulging in
experiences. The question was finally resolved when psychologists Gilovich
and van Boevn through a series of experiments found out that experience make
people happier than material possessions. The author writes "If you want to
be happy, you should spend your time, money and energy on experiences rather
than material possessions...Life is not about having things, but having good
experiences...In that system, where more is always better, you can never
have enough. You can never fulfill your side of the happiness equation.
Instead ... you are always scrambling to get more, to keep up, to catch up,
and to overtake. But no matter how hard you try and how much you gather, you
can never feel like you've truly made it...One consequence of this is that
people sacrifice too much life to get more stuff".
Material things cause two fold problems. First you have to work hard to
accrue them over time. Second, you have to keep them organized for use. In a
landmark study spanning over 4 years, UCLA researchers observed thirty two
Los Angles family. The findings later published as "the Life at Home in the
21st Century" showed a staggering number of possessions and clutter. They
found that people had too much possessions and too little time. Wallman
quotes from the study -"Adults were spending little time outside in their
gardens- less than fifteen minutes per week on average, even though they had
often spent a lot of money on fancy barbeques and outdoor dining sets. They
were surprised how child centric the houses were. Thirty one of thirty three
homes had things on display in the living room - like plaques, ribbons,
trophies, certificates, and beauty contest tiaras- that showed off how well
the kids were doing. They were astounded to see how much stuff people had.
The smallest home of 980 sq ft contained two bedrooms and a living room
alone had 2260 items. The count was of all the things visible. On average
watch family had 39 pairs of shoes, 90 dvds, 139 toys, 212 cds, 90 dvds and
438 books and magazines. They were messy. Toys were in the wrong place...
There were things in hallway, garage, bathroom, and living room. The
researchers concluded that because of the sheer number of artifacts, people
own today and because we are living in a materially rich society - there is
a material saturation and an extraordinary clutter crisis".
Clutter is a serious problem in the developed countries. It adversely
impacts our mental health. "Clutter causes stress- psychologist calls it
allostatic load. This is the wear and tear clutter puts on our system from
watching out for it, picking it up, and clearing it away. Stress causes
clutter, because it leaves women with less energy to clear up when she goes
home. It affects women more than men. Women are more likely to have stress
response as measured by change in cortisol levels when they describe their
homes as messy, disorganized and chaotic. It may be because culturally a
woman takes more responsibility for the home, and are therefore more likely
to get stressed out by a home full of clutter..." writes the author.
What motivates people to buy stuff or go for a vacation or work harder?
Wallman quotes two distinct motives. "Either people do things because of
intrinsic motivation, which means doping it for its own sake, because they
personally find it interesting or enjoyable: eating an ice cream, skimming a
stone across water, or singing in the shower. Or people do something because
of extrinsic motivation, which means doing it with some other aim in mind,
like getting a reward or impressing people: eating kale, for example or
filling an expense sheet, or the ridiculous clothes you bought as a teenager
so that people would think you looked cool. You are more likely to be happy,
so studies have shown, if you do something for intrinsic reasons. This is a
useful insight, but a hard one to make use of, because it is difficult to
look inside yourself and work out weather your motivation in intrinsic or
extrinsic. Think about taking on a triathlon. You like the challenge to be
physically fit, but you also enjoy telling people that you have conquered
it. Now apply the same thinking to a dress, or other stuff you
bought...Psychologists have discovered that, on the whole, we are more
likely to buy material goods for extrinsic reasons, and more likely to do
something for intrinsic enjoyment... Also experience brings you closer to
people and connect with others."
The author also discusses the psychological origins of our love for
materials. Since the advent of agriculture and population explosion,
majority of the people had to worry about food and essential goods. Through
the human history most of the people across the world has lived in severe
food and material shortage. Only industrial revolution and the use of fossil
fuels, fertilizers made food and stuff relatively cheaper. We also like to
consume more calories than needed; the trait passed down from evolution; as
excess calories stored as fat has survival advantage during the times of
food shortage. Thus unless we use rational constraint, our instincts will
always urge us to eat and accumulate more. But the good news is - human have
free will which can be used to control unhealthy instincts. The author sites
several stories of people and their choices to live a simpler and content
life. He narrates how many rich and successful people including the
millennial are spending time and resources on experiences instead of
splurging on typical status symbols like clothes and car. Each of us has to
decide for ourselves what is valuable. In the end we need to strike a
balance, and this book provides enough insight to achieve that. Overall a
good book which raises critical questions and a good read for all living in
relative material abundance.

Dr. Panchajanya 'Panch' Paul, MD, ABIHM, ABPN, FAPA, is an Emory-trained Child and Adult Psychiatrist. He is certified in Holistic medicine and has authored two books: Stress Rescue and Sleep Coaching. Please call 678-851-3512 or email info@hpsych.org to schedule an appointment with Dr.Paul.